Top secret: Male sexual health issues we don’t talk about

Many men find it difficult to talk about their sexual health but it’s important to get it out into the open. So let’s clear the air and have a chat about:

• premature ejaculation
• infertility
• penis problems

Premature ejaculation

It might surprise you to learn that premature ejaculation is probably the most common male sexual problem. Between 20% and 30% of men (of all ages) experience it.

Ejaculation and orgasm are not the same thing. You can think of it like this:

• Ejaculation is what happens in the pelvis at climax. It’s the process of expelling semen from the penis.
• Orgasm is what happens in the mind at climax.  It’s the feeling of intense pleasure and euphoria that occurs in the brain.

Usually, these events occur together – but not always. And problems with ejaculation (premature, delayed or absent) can be distressing. 

Premature ejaculation is defined as:

• ejaculation sooner than desired by the man or his partner (less than 2 minutes after penetration on most occasions)
• premature ejaculation that troubles the man and his partner
• poor control over ejaculation

It’s usually caused by:

• sexual inexperience
• anxiety
• other psychologic factors

If you are experiencing symptoms, you should speak to a doctor to find out the right treatment for you. You can request a telehealth consultation with one of our Australian-registered doctors from anywhere in Australia, seven days a week.

Male infertility

For men, the quantity and quality of your sperm impact how easy it will be for you to conceive. If your sperm count is low, or if the sperm are of a poor quality, it will be difficult to impregnate your partner.

Around 1 in 20 men have low numbers of sperm, causing infertility. About 1 in 100 men have no sperm at all.

The good news is that one in eight infertile men can be treated. Couples can become pregnant following treatment.

It may be worth consulting a doctor if:

• you’ve been trying to impregnate your partner without success for 12 months or more
• you’ve been having sex at least twice a week
• you’re aware of factors that could have an impact on your chances of conceiving a baby

Penis problems

It’s important to take good care of your genitals. Keep an out for the following issues, which could be signs of more serious problems.

• Blood in your semen is usually not serious. It could, however, be a sign of prostate cancer or an STI.
• Penis irritation (itchiness or discomfort) may occur due to any number of medical conditions. Eczema, fungal infections, psoriasis and some STIs could all cause penis irritation.
• Penis swelling, injury or inflammation can be very distressing. See a doctor if you’re concerned about any damage to your penis.